Exploring the poignant journey of “A New Kind of Wilderness”
Discovering an extraordinary lifestyle
In 2014, a filmmaker came across a unique blog that offered a window into a rare lifestyle far removed from modern urbanity. The blog, authored by a Norwegian photographer, vividly illustrated the life she shared with her British husband and their four bilingual children, who were educated at home while living off the grid on a serene Scandinavian farm.
“I was in awe of her,” reflects the filmmaker, admiring a lifestyle and mindset she found profoundly inspiring. The path wasn’t easy, marked by intense labor and numerous challenges, but it was undeniably fulfilling and imbued with a sense of freedom.
From blog to screen: An unorthodox vision
Initially, the director envisioned documenting this unconventional lifestyle as a Norwegian television docuseries. However, destiny had other plans, and the project was shelved for several years. Then, in 2019, a heartbreaking turn of events emerged: the photographer was diagnosed with cervical cancer, and within a year, she sadly passed away.
Despite the tragic loss, the director felt an urgent need to visually capture the photographer’s world. “For me, the best way to do that was through her family, her children, and their way of life,” she explains. “Now with an added emotional depth—portraying their coping mechanisms after such a significant loss while ensuring her spirit lived on through her photos and stories.”
Unveiling “A New Kind of Wilderness”
The culmination of this pressing desire is the 84-minute documentary, “A New Kind of Wilderness”. This visually stunning and emotionally charged film premiered at the Sundance Film Festival, clinching the Sundance World Documentary Grand Jury Prize. It’s a tender examination of a family grappling with grief and evolving ideals.
The multifaceted layers of the documentary
The documentary is a rich tapestry of themes, from the unique, idyllic life the husband strives to maintain post his wife’s death, to universal subjects such as grief, parenting, blended families, and loneliness. The filmmaker sought to capture all of these aspects, emphasizing the human and family relationships at the core of the story. “It was about the unique process the family was going through, the transformations, and the decisions made for the children, amidst uncertainties,” she notes. The director envisioned a film that layered these themes while incorporating the photographer’s photos and stories seamlessly.
Crafting a seamless narrative
Maria’s vlogs, which she created abundantly, posed a challenge during the editing process. The film had to balance her past voice with present-day reflections. The editors adopted a guiding principle: Maria’s contributions should enhance the current narrative. This approach inevitably led to difficult decisions, cutting beautiful moments to maintain story integrity.
Building trust amidst grief
Filming commenced soon after the photographer’s death, continuing for over three years. Trust was a crucial component, especially with the family deeply grieving. The early days were filled with doubts and uncertainties. To navigate these challenging times, the filmmaker focused on listening and understanding. Whether it was the father’s concerns about exposing the children or his personal emotional struggles, addressing these needs was paramount.
Capturing the essence of individual grief
While filming, attention was equally given to the photographer’s teenage daughter from a previous relationship. Her experience of grief was notably distinct from the younger children. While the younger ones transitioned in and out of mourning, the teenager’s sorrow was more profound and persistent. Respecting her space and presence was essential, highlighting the disparate ways individuals process loss.
Triumphs and transformations
In a powerful turn of events, the filmmaker highlights how the daughter now travels globally with the film, sharing her story with remarkable dignity and strength. This transformation underscores the therapeutic impact of the filming process for her, evolving from a period of isolation to one of public affirmation and healing.
Honoring a dream fulfilled
Reflecting on how the photographer might react to the film and the journey her family has endured, the filmmaker received heartfelt acknowledgments from the photographer’s friends. They recalled her aspirations from film school, where her dream was to premiere at Sundance. This realization, coupled with her daughter’s assurance of her mother’s love for the film, brings a sense of fulfillment to this poignant journey.
“A New Kind of Wilderness” stands as a testament to resilience and the enduring spirit of a family navigating the complexities of loss and legacy. It invites viewers to witness a deeply intimate portrayal of human strength and connection in the face of profound challenges.
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